Marriage is a life changing experience. When a marriage ends, whether due to divorce or death, questions take its place. What did this marriage mean to me? What do I need now? What do I want for myself, for my children, my family? It is not easy to answer these questions. Emotions cloud the ability to find answers and trust oneself when making decisions. According to the National Center for Health Statistics, 54% of divorced women remarry after 5 years; 75% remarry after 10 years. Additionally, 15% of "remarriages" end after 3 years, 25% end after 5 years. The 2007 Census Bureau's statistics indicate that 12% of men and 13% of women in the USA marry at least twice in one lifetime. 40% of "remarriages' involve children of differing ages (Coontz). With these statistics, the message is clear. Be true to yourself, your needs, your wants and your personal goals. In our every changing culture, where economics and society impact our decisions, an impartial individual can be the right one to consult. Call for a telephone consultation to learn how short term counseling can help you find realistic answers, understand personal needs and emotions, and work on decisions that can fortify your life. |